Love Story..

I just finished reading, Message in A Bottle, by Nicholas Sparks. And it was great. i mean, hmmm..honestly, it was great, except it didn't give me the usual emotional emotions as usual, when i read the story.
What can i conclude from the great love story are:
1) the man and woman, usually end up not being together for some fate or life circumstances happened.
2) either it took a short period of time, or long period of time, the great love will not end up perish.
3) that the hurt will stay on there, lingering, and it will take more than a short period of time, to move on and get ahead of life and feel love again.
4) that when the next 'right' person come in line, the feeling can wash aside the latter emotions and that is what matter.
5) that it is hard to fall in love with anyone without the 'it'.

this are all from the great love story..
except this keep on bothering me..

1) if the great love story did not took place till forever, then when we end up marrying someone, how to stay afloat in that emotions if that's not the great love (between human i mean)?

if anyone, have any answer or have felt it, do share please...
and

this kind of love is hurt.